بخش اول فیلم کوتاه مصاحبه با ونسا با زیرنویس انگلیسی سطح پیشرفته

فیلم کوتاه مصاحبه با ونسا بخش اول با زیرنویس و متن انگلیسی

متن انگلیسی و کامل مصاحبه با ونسا (Q&A WITH VANESSA)

let’s start with the basics and then we’re going to dive into some more specifics especially around your book cues but one thing we know a lot of people say of leadership they’re going to say that leadership is influence and one of the things I love about what you do Vanessa is you really help us all grow in our influence one interaction at a time

when is it that you first discovered in your own life that you actually had the ability to influence other people؟

I think when I think about influence and this is especially important in my life I didn’t realize that our influence comes from just being present in other words I didn’t realize how contagious we are our Charisma our bad moods our good news good moods and pretty early early on I realized there was this effect that if you walked into a room and there was one person in a bad mood it infected everyone

and  I remember I think this was in college I went to Emory University Atlanta Georgia for any of my Southern friends and I remember this distinctly I was in a study group I walked into the room I was in a really nice mood right it was a lovely day and there was one person in the room who was just down they were just having a bad day and I remember the entire room got brought down even I was like gosh yeah I am stressed I am burnt out as he started talking about how burnt out he was and I had this aha moment

of if one person in a bad mood could infect a room could one person in a really good mood infect a room that was the first time I ever remember having that idea that maybe we could walk into room and infect good

if we wanted to and that was I think the seed of me diving into a lot of the research on how contagious our emotions are and one of the first studies I found after that because I had access to all these academic databases at Emory was a study that was done by Richard Wiseman and he found that highly charismatic people are the most contagious

so yes people in bad moods are contagious but more

importantly if you rank high on the Charisma scale

you are more infectious you’re infectious on phone calls video calls even listening to this podcast I could infect you with a good mood or a bad mood depending on where I’m at and so I thought that was so powerful that actually working on your charisma could make you more influential.