فیلم کوتاه مصاحبه با ونسا بخش اول با زیرنویس و متن انگلیسی
متن انگلیسی و کامل مصاحبه با ونسا (Q&A WITH VANESSA)
let’s start with the basics and then we’re going to dive into
some more specifics especially around
your book cues but one thing
we know a lot of people say of leadership
they’re going to say that leadership is
influence and one of the things I love
about what you do Vanessa is you really
help us all grow in our influence one
interaction at a time when is it that
you first discovered in your own life
that you actually had the ability to influence other people
I think when I think about influence and this is especially important in my life I didn’t
realize that our influence comes from just being present in other words I
didn’t realize how contagious we are our Charisma our bad moods our good news
good moods and pretty early early on
I realized there was this effect that if you walked into a room and there was one
person in a bad mood it infected everyone and I remember
I think this was in college I went to Emory University
Atlanta Georgia for any of my Southern friends and I remember this distinctly
I was in a study group
I walked into the room I was in a really
nice mood right
it was a lovely day and there was one person in the room who was
just down they were just having a bad day and
I remember the entire room got brought down even I was like gosh yeah
I am stressed I am burnt out as he started talking about how burnt out he was and I
had this aha moment of if one person in a bad mood could infect a room could one
person in a really good mood infect a room that was the first time I ever remember
having that idea that maybe we could walk into room and infect good if we
wanted to and that was I think the seed of me diving into a lot of the research
on how contagious our emotions are and one of the first studies I found after
that because I had access to all these academic databases at Emory was a study
that was done by Richard Wiseman and he found that highly charismatic people are
the most contagious so yes people in bad moods are contagious but more
importantly if you rank high on the Charisma scale
you are more infectious you’re infectious on phone calls video calls
even listening to this podcast I could infect you with a good mood or a bad
mood depending on where I’m at and so I thought that was so powerful that
actually working on your charisma could make you more influential
